Oh Contracts…

How I love/hate thee, let me count the ways… Since I’m stuck several thousand miles away from our wedding location and I can’t stomach $2 a minute phone calls, my father has been left in charge of sorting out the contract for the caterer.

Neither Mr.D or I are as eagled eyed as we should be so it’s helpful that my dad is an ace at contracts, he checks them thoroughly, reviews statutes from the attorney general’s office etc before signing anything.  He is your average “measure thrice, cut once” kind of guy - except it usually ends up “measure 10 times, cut once”. While this process has proved helpful with checking over apartment rental agreements and such it’s been a bit different with the wedding.

There were a few problems in the original catering contract that worried my father, his main concerns were that although the catering company had the necessary amount of insurance if anything were to happen it we would personally need an additional insurance policy because we would be the ones sued in case of a terrible accident.  Also, if for some reason the catering company cancels on us or they close their business we lose our substantial deposit. These were just the tip of the iceberg for my dad, so he set about making revisions and emailing contracts back and forth between the catering company.

Although it hasn’t been fully sorted yet, I was wondering if anyone else has gone though something similar? Did you accept most of your contracts as is or did you make revisions to them?

2 Responses to “Oh Contracts…”

  1. Krista Says:

    We accepted most of ours … but I just look to see if they’re reasonable. We don’t need insurance, because our caterer (the venue) has it, and they’re the ones serving alcohol. That was a question we kind of asked. Otherwise, if it looks reasonable, it’s fine with me. (I do read it)

    But kudos to your dad for being so thorough! Many people dno’t even read the contract!

  2. PacificYorkshireBird Says:

    Yikes - I really need to have a look at our contracts so far. I am planning my US wedding while in the UK and have a lovely wedding planner - I totally take for granted that she as thorough as I would be if I were a perfect bride-to-be.

    Thanks for the inspiration!

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